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3 years ago  ::  Feb 03, 2010 - 2:56PM #21
Perithoth
Date Joined: Aug 30, 2008
Posts: 294
40 year old gamer, married to a gamer. Two pugs and two cats. I am currently a bookkeeper for my families business and studying to be an accountant (I currently hold a BS in History). I was a phone tech in a previous life for too many computer and tech companies to list. My wife was just promoted to Controller of her company but has a deep background in IT (she also has a Masters in Physics, so yes she is smarter than me).

As for my homegame tables, they generally run 1/3 to 1/2 women. Here in Portland, OR they are not that rare. Added bonus that my wife is a DM or whatever the system she is running calls them. Other players have been: Real Estate, Minatures & Terrian company, Homeless Shelter Services Manager, Receptionist, Students.

In my LG days we had VP from IBM down to unemployed/uneremployed. There is a broad community of gamers here.

The FLGS I use, shout out to Guardian Games, is owned and operated by a woman and participates in the women only Dungeon Divas game group here.

Bryan Blumklotz
AKA Saracenus
Guardians of the Gameday Coordinator
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3 years ago  ::  Feb 03, 2010 - 3:53PM #22
Dragon9
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Date Joined: Jul 16, 2002
Posts: 4,997
I'm a weekend warrior when it comes to gaming.  By day I am a PC Field Technician in the Cincinnati area doing hardware warranty replacements primarily on Dell PCs.  I technically also do Gateway, Panasonic, and Lenovo PC work, but those service calls are few and far between since Dell holds such a large chunk of the US user base (I would say 98% of my calls are Dell).  I easily put 500 - 1000 miles a week on my car since the territory is about 200 miles in diameter.

I have a daughter who's almost one, but she already has a set of plush dice.  She loves it when I bring up YouTube and play the muppets Mahna Mahna song.

Since I'm on the road for work I can't check the Wizards website.  However, I frequently think about character concepts or article pitches for Dragon while driving between jobs which sometimes can be upwards of an hour long.

Most people who know me know I play D&D.  I don't hide the fact nor do I announce it.  It just seems to come up int he course of conversation eventually.  Then again, I rarely see my co-workers since we don't have an office.

I have played with many people who fit into all walks of life.  From the stereotypical anti-social basement dweller to doctors, university librarians, couriers, janitors, pharmacists, bio-engineers, print shop operators, military personnel, network admins and lawyers.  I find that the "non-stereotypical" players I have met have all been through the RPGA.  Most of the "stereotypical" players I have met through other means and played in home games with them.  Most of them wouldn't dream of playing in the RPGA.  I think the RPGA attracts a more socially open person.  That's one of the reasons I like participating in the RPGA.  I get to meet and play with a lot of people I otherwise wouldn't (sort of geek solidarity I guess).
Sorry WOTC, you lost me with Essentials.  So where I used to buy every book that came out, now I will be very choosy about what I buy.  Can we just get back to real 4e?

Check out the 4e Conversion Wiki.

1. Wizards fight dirty.  They hit their enemies in the NADs. -- Dragon9
2. A barbarian hits people with his axe.  A warlord hits people with his barbarian.
3. Boo-freakin'-hoo, ya light-slingin' finger-wigglers. -- MrCelcius in response to the Cleric's Healer's Lore nerf
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3 years ago  ::  Feb 04, 2010 - 7:56AM #23
IanQuentin
Date Joined: Jul 1, 2003
Posts: 51
I am a software developer myself.  However, my local group has included a wide variety of professions, including (other than those mentioned already) a chef, an adult store owner, several psychiatric ward aides, construction workers and a pastor.

I'm pretty open about D&D at work and even occasionally have my Player's Handbook on my desk.  Though I don't talk about it much at work since there's not many tabletop RPGers at work.  Most however at my job are gamers of one sort or another.  There have even been conference calls at my workplace to plan their WoW raids later that evening (I wish I was kidding).  DragonCon happens around here and at least 2 dozen of us disappear to the con.

And I own my own place basically, so yeah, I don't fit the stereotype at all.  And though I do check it daily, I don't check these boards excessively.


Jay Anderson
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3 years ago  ::  Feb 04, 2010 - 9:51AM #24
Greyson
Date Joined: Aug 27, 2003
Posts: 847
I have been an escrow officer at a land title company (I manage the money as it moves between real estate sales and refinances) for the last five years. Before that I was in the U.S. Army for thirteen years - four enlisted, nine as an officer, got out as an O3E (captain). My bachelor's degree is in public relations.

I just bought my second house where I live with my wife (non-gamer, but supportive) of ten years and 5-year-old daughter (her birth prompted me to leave the service - it was a very hard decision to make).

Been gaming since 1984 and got started with the red boxed set. Moved on to the blue expert boxed set, than jumped into AD&D after a year or so of the red and blue boxed sets. I was on the Nyrond triad in Living Greyhawk the last two years of the campaign.

I have to credit my early D&D years for getting me into reading. Early TSR work, especially Mr Gygax's material, sent me to look words up in the dictionary way more than any school teacher or class room work ever did.
-------- Don (Greyson) --------
Non-smoker, White, Non-golfer, U.S. American
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3 years ago  ::  Feb 04, 2010 - 10:49AM #25
JRedGiant1
Date Joined: Jun 14, 2009
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I'm work as part of the business team which oversees online distribution for a major global hotel chain. Ironically, after I quit 3.5 (a level 18 wizard with level 14 healer cohort is a lot of spell preperation each session), getting together with my girlfriend got me in to 4E, as I stated "I'll be damned if I'm going to be a D&D widower". I'm 35 and I'm in escrow on my first home purchase.

My coworkers know I'm openly a giant nerd. Some know I've been to SDCC a few times, some know I play Euro style boardgames, one I've talked about Bioware games with, but only one knows I play D&D (as she caught me playing in a store she was going to play Warhammer at.)

Our local gaming groups seem to have about a 15% female population.

I think we need to remember that this thread is only representative of respondents. If I lived in my parent's basement and worked for a chicken shack, I probably wouldn't talk about it.

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3 years ago  ::  Feb 04, 2010 - 11:36AM #26
dkay807
Date Joined: Feb 7, 2007
Posts: 1,114

Feb 4, 2010 -- 10:49AM, JRedGiant1 wrote:

I think we need to remember that this thread is only representative of respondents. If I lived in my parent's basement and worked for a chicken shack, I probably wouldn't talk about it.




Excellent point. While I absolutely love hearing about successful, well-adjusted gamers (and try to surround myself with them during my pursuits of the hobby), the sad truth is that we have a certain stereotype for a reason.

Dave Kay
LFR Writing Director Retiree
dkay807 [at] yahoo [dot] com
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3 years ago  ::  Feb 04, 2010 - 3:22PM #27
brightbane
Date Joined: Sep 11, 2007
Posts: 170
Ok can't stay behind here.

I am a 28 year old, just recently began studying again after roughly 8 years as a assistent manager.
I have a very lovely girlfriend who is as big a gamer as me. Also she kick my butt in several computer games.

oh yeah and I helped Magicstar meet his girlfriend :P (He would never have met a girl in where he lives otherwise, well not as sexy as his current gf)
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3 years ago  ::  Feb 04, 2010 - 4:31PM #28
zagora_01
Date Joined: Jan 15, 2006
Posts: 648
Hello Hello, I'm a I work in a NOC at Stanford University. All my co-workers are jocks who think I'm a geek. I spent 6 years in the military 3 of wich were as an Airborne Ranger (I played D&D with my platoon seargent). I've been married for 10 years and have a 10 yr old son who plays dnd with me. My wife won't touch it; however, she has gone from threatening to throw my books away to watching me and asking questions about the game. Maybe in another ten years she'll actually play. I also have an electrical engineering degree though I never worked in the field.
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3 years ago  ::  Feb 04, 2010 - 4:32PM #29
imaginaryfriend
Date Joined: Aug 17, 2007
Posts: 682
Hmm so if I now claimed I live in my parents basement and am unemployed, financing my D&D addiction by being a volunteer for medical testing (psychoactive drugs), that would not be believable anymore? Dang.
 
Well ok then.

Good thing I am a solutions architect (IT nerd) for a local college, and have been living in my own place for some 20 years.

Work knows, as I have to explain the periodic flights to the USA , but they dont understand and I am not putting time in enlightening them
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3 years ago  ::  Feb 04, 2010 - 4:32PM #30
mvincent
Date Joined: Jun 15, 2004
Posts: 8,342

Feb 4, 2010 -- 11:36AM, dkay807 wrote:

Feb 4, 2010 -- 10:49AM, JRedGiant1 wrote:

I think we need to remember that this thread is only representative of respondents. If I lived in my parent's basement and worked for a chicken shack, I probably wouldn't talk about it.




Excellent point. While I absolutely love hearing about successful, well-adjusted gamers (and try to surround myself with them during my pursuits of the hobby), the sad truth is that we have a certain stereotype for a reason.


fwiw: I've actually been pleasantly surprised at the social adeptness of most LFR players in my own area (which I view as a fairly non-selective sampling). Since D&D is a social game, I figured less socially adept gamers would gravitate more to different venues.

Of course, D&D's genre and the rules heft will still tend attract certain stereotypes (i.e. people that like rules and fantasy, which can sometimes be at odds with liking people and liking to fit in). I don't expect all the LFR gamers I meet to be completely socially adept, but I would speculate that the hobby has made them more socially adept than they would be otherwise.

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