Extort triggers on a spell being
cast. Thus it is put on the stack above the triggering spell and resolves before it. Each extort ability triggers seperately, so with two extorters out, you get the choice to pay

or

twice and can extort for up to 2 life per spell. This cost is
paying mana, not tapping lands. Tapping a land for its mana ability will
produce the appropriate mana which you can then spend on spells or abilitiues (like extort).