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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 12:56AM #1
LupaCupcake
Date Joined: Jun 9, 2012
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EDIT...

THIS WAS SOLVED ALREADY YET PEOPLE KEEP SAYING THINGS LIKE "ITS A BLOG POST ABOUT YOUR LIFE" BLA BLA...durka durka....its over

I posted it here because only gamers can understand gaming situations. To average joe it is no different than playing UNO. Thus this forum has an element of people relating to situations such as what was posted.

I didn't break any rules, I was irritated and online before I had even woke up which I stated more than once already and under normal cirumstances it would not have been posted, but after I had coffee etc. it was already put up so I just went with it. Would I have normally posted this? Nope. Do I regret posting it? Nope...sh** happens, it got people talking and again, I didn't break any rules.

Now my MTG cupcakes are ready to be decorated...off I go
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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 1:14AM #2
an_endless_epidemic
Date Joined: May 18, 2010
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I think the very obvious answer here is to chop his balls off and wear them as a fancy necklace.

In truth, I'd be outraged if my signifigant other said something along those terms. I know what it's like because I told a friend I was invited to a masquerade and he wasn't and threw a fit...mind you we're teenagers and he's a bitch anyway so his reaction was pretty for-seeable.

So by viewing him I can see why you'd be so upset

I still think you should chop is balls off though. 
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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 1:27AM #3
LupaCupcake
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I'm hurt and angry about this still. If he actually goes and leaves me behind......straight up that feels like he is putting game night over me.

I got stuff to make MTG cupcakes this weekend since it was going to be at our place (that is the norm). Im not making any freaking MTG cupcakes now. No way in hell
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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 1:30AM #4
Enigma256
Date Joined: Jul 28, 2010
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don't have kids if you want to enjoy life

but anyway, the solution to this is to simply host it again at your house where everything seemed to work fine
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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 2:39AM #5
an_endless_epidemic
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Aug 16, 2012 -- 1:27AM, LupaCupcake wrote:

I'm hurt and angry about this still. If he actually goes and leaves me behind......straight up that feels like he is putting game night over me.

I got stuff to make MTG cupcakes this weekend since it was going to be at our place (that is the norm). Im not making any freaking MTG cupcakes now. No way in hell



No cupcakes? Hot damn you are furious

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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 3:26AM #6
LupaCupcake
Date Joined: Jun 9, 2012
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The cupcake thing was a challenge and something that originated last week..long story....

No orange syrup cupcakes with MTG inspired designs on the top now....pfft....

we'll see what happens. I like to think he wouldn't actually think a hour or two more of magic is worth hurting my feelings and excluding me like this so maybe we all do go. If he actually does make me stay home and cuts me out of the game night then I'll be really upset.
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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 3:56AM #7
MoiMoi
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Even if I'm sympathetic to your cause, you wont like my reply. This is hardly related to magic, it's a family issue and the worst place you should bring it up is on a magic the gathering forum, if you want help with your situation, use common sense and ask your friends and family.... if you really want outside opinions, find another forum that's more about helping people with family/friend problems. This forum is for entertainment, your post hardly fits that profile
I love trolls

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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 4:44AM #8
Wendigoth
Date Joined: Aug 16, 2012
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I had played M:tG with my friends before having kids and gave it up for a few years because it wasnt something that my partner was into and it became too inconvenient for me to go. So yeah, in your situation I would be upset.

I think you need to communicate your needs clearly, with both your husband and possibly your group of friends, so everyone understands. I regret giving up my hobby, and wish I had communicated and worked it out better before.

Now I play with my BF and have taught my kids to play, so its a "family night" activity we all do together sometimes.
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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 5:05AM #9
LupaCupcake
Date Joined: Jun 9, 2012
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@ MoiMoi, I'm not upset with your reply. I understand what you are saying and I can see that side of it. I also respect and appreciate your honesty. I like people that tell me exactly what they are thinking even if it is something I might not like.

The reason I posted it here was because I thought other MTG players would understand the aspect of being excluded from the weekly game night whereas other people might be like "its a game night, so what?" and think it was the same thing as not attending a game of pictionary. The added part about finishing my maind eck this week and the excitement that comes with getting those expensive cards in the mail then being told...NO...you don't get to play....non-gamers won't understand that. My mother tries to understand the gamer aspect of our life, but people that don't get really into games just can't relate. Lots of people don't even realize professional gamers that game for a living exist. I completely get where you are coming from though and in honesty, if I had been fully awake I probably wouldn't have posted it. I didn't even have my coffee yet...I am addicted to coffee

In the end......I am a gamer so I am approaching this as a gamer. My main deck is finally where I want it to be. She is ready to charge in and annihilate people (hopefully lol) so I am going to state "if you are scared of being challenged by my main and would rather go up against decks that you already know what to expect from....I understand. She is a formidable deck after all." We are both competitive and I have purposefully not let him know everything in this deck so he can't prep for it...hitting that competitive nerve will strike up one of those "Ohhh really?" type of replies and I'll just smile and walk away.

Problem solved.......like many gamers in existence throughout the years, most cannot refuse a challenge hehehe
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11 months ago  ::  Aug 16, 2012 - 5:22AM #10
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I would love for my wife to be into Magic even a quarter as much as I am. She plays a little, but I would have to physically drag her to anything resembling a "gaming night" (I would probably need to tranq her too). This means that it isnt an issue for us: if I want to go play games anywhere, she is happy to stay at home with the kids (she usually invites her sister over for the evening).

If she was interested in coming to gaming events we would have to arrange a babysitter (we have done this for a couple of tournaments and other events in the past, but the experience put her off going again).

I would remind your other hald just how lucky he is to have a partner that even wants to go to gaming nights with him. Im sure my wife would agree with the "necklace" comment above too...

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May 23, 2013 -- 10:32AM, zammm wrote:

May 23, 2013 -- 10:06AM, Adroitmind@gmail.com wrote:

Not bad. But what happens flavor wise when one kamahl kills the other one?

Zis iz a sign uf deep psychological troma, buried in zer subconscious mind. By keelink himzelf, Kamahl iz physically expressink hiz feelinks uf self-disgust ova hiz desire for hiz muzzer. [/GermanPsychologistVoice]


Jan 5, 2013 -- 9:32PM, RPJesus wrote:

Jan 4, 2013 -- 5:20AM, LMTRK wrote:

That makes no sense to me.

If they spelled the ability out on the card in full then it would not be allowed in a mono-black Commander deck, but because they used a keyword to save space it is allowed?

~ Tim   


Yup, just like you can have Birds of paradise in a mono green deck but not Noble Hierarch . YAY COLOR IDENTITY


Oct 26, 2012 -- 9:56PM, zammm wrote:

Oct 26, 2012 -- 12:24AM, Raeoran wrote:

Is algebra really that difficult?

Survey says yes.


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Jul 7, 2011 -- 12:36AM, LMTRK wrote:

You want to make a milky drink. You squeeze a cow.


I love this description. Like the cows are sponges filled with milk. I can see it all Nick Parks claymation-style with the cow's eyes bugging out momentarily as a giant farmer squeezes it like a squeaky dog toy, and milk shoots out of it.

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